Pastor Mark and Grace answer this question during a live Q&A. Just because you’re single doesn’t mean you can’t be loving your wife right now—even if you’re still waiting to meet her. One practical idea? Write letters to your future wife in a journal to let her know how you’re growing, how you’re praying for her, verses you’re meditating on, etc. and then give them to her when you get married.

“Guys, it’s good to be journaling for your wife someday, praying for her, as Scripture comes to mind, and then using that as a way to have affection and devotion, even though you may have not met her yet.” - Mark Driscoll